Responses to “Do I need to invite my hairstylist to my wedding?”

Happy Friday everyone. I hope you are looking forward to a wonderful long weekend. I know I am!

Last week one of my clients asked me whether or not she was required to invite her hairstylist to her wedding. I received some great comments from some wedding professionals around the country. Here are some of their answers:

LeeAnna Fetter-Grafstein

Sounds like the stylist feels close enough to the bride to travel 2 hours and spend the night. I have been to several weddings not knowing anyone–she would be there for the bride–her friend. I think they should invite her and give a nice bonus for the travel expense the stylist has incurred. Best wishes!

Michael Kazis

Good advice to the mother of the bride. It would definitely depend on how comfortable the hair stylist is with attending the wedding. For instance, is she also friends with the the bride or the mother of the bride for that matter and would that make her more comfortable with attending the wedding reception?

Covering the stylist’s expenses is … definitely the minimal that should be done in order to minimize unforeseeable issues on the wedding day.

Perhaps they could at least invite her to attend the ceremony. It’s not often that hair stylists get to see their work at an actual wedding ceremony.

Christina White Steuerwald

As a hairstylists that does hair and make-up for weddings…I personally am so worn out after doing a wedding party, that I don’t think I would want to be invited to the wedding! When I finish a wedding I just want to relax with a glass of wine. But that’s just me! :)

Heather Brinkman

I get invited all the time. I think a lot of times it would be awkward because I don’t really know anyone else and a lot of times I just met the bride herself. However if it is a client from the salon I would most likely go because I have built a relationship with that person. Great article!

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Your partner in perfect planning,

Susan

Real Wedding Wednesday: Karen and Gary at the Celebration Hotel

It’s time again for Real Wedding Wednesday. Karen and Gary were a lovely couple from the United Kingdom. The had a beautiful wedding at the Celebration Hotel. I love working at Celebration… It is an intimate boutique hotel that reminds me the “old Florida” and the staff is so welcoming and friendly.

Enjoy!

Susan: What was the most memorable part of the wedding day for you?

Gary: The thunderstorm just before we married and being informed that 5 mins before the ceremony, there was no-one to marry us. Fortunately, nature sorted out the first and I was very impressed with how quickly you obtained a replacement for us. (Susan’s note: One of our favorite ministers had an emergency come up right before the wedding. In spite of that emergency, he helped us find a suitable replacement so that the wedding could move forward. That is the mark of a true professinal. That quality is something you should definitely look for when hiring your vendors).

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Susan: What was the most memorable part of the wedding day for Karen?

Karen: How smoothly everything went, with all of the people you recommended turning up on time, eg the steamer from Carolyn Allen, make up artist and hair stylist, the reverend and the violinst.

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Susan: What were you most worried about?

Gary: Nothing – I don’t tend to worry and as we had kept in regular touch, I had every confidence in your services. If I was to worry, these are the only aspects that caused me some slight concern – organising a wedding via e-mail and phone, never having seen the venue, other than on the web site, nor having met yourselves.

Karen: I also don’t tend to worry and as Gary and I used to run a Wedding Function Venue, I always advised our clients that as long as they got married, everything else would become a tale to tell in the future. I didn’t realise at the time how close to not having someone to marry us we were!

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Susan: How did your Just Marry! planner, Karen, and I help alleviate any fear or stress?

Gary: Due to the thunderstorm, you discussed with me the possibility of moving the ceremony inside and very quickly (or so it seemed to me) sorted a replacement out for the registrar.

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Susan: What did you think of the flowers, décor?

Gary: The flowers were perfect and smelt gorgeous and the decor was fantastic. We couldn’t think of anything better to say.

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Susan: Is there anything you wish had happened differently?

Gary: We were so delighted with our photographs, in hindsight, we would have booked Ginger to be with us for longer and we wouldn’t have lost our own camera and camcorder! Good job Ginger did such a good job.

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Susan: Do you have anything else you want to share?

Gary: Just that it was a perfect day, with everything happening seamlessly. Everyone you recommended did a wonderful job and if we ever decided to get married again (hopefully to each other), we wouldn’t hesitate in booking your venue and commendations again.

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If you have questions on this or any other wedding related topic, please post for me here or send me an email to susan.southerland@pwg.com. Also become a fan on Facebook by clicking here and follow me on Twitter by clicking here.

Your partner in perfect planning,

Susan

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